Guest Blog Post: Entertainment: Top 3 Benefits of a Break-Up

Get ahead | Succeed As women we often have the urge to be nosey and to compare ourselves to the next girl Guest blog post: Tiyani Majoko Whether we are running on the treadmill at the gym, standing in the queue at the supermarket or checking our make up in a mirror while in line […]

Entertainment: 6 Types of People to Avoid Online

The internet is a free for all  While there are plenty of genuine traders and people giving good advice online, cyberspace has also given free rein to all kinds of cowboys making grand claims, in their website and social media bios like:  “Best selling author” with no veritable proof “Motivational speaker” with few speaking engagements […]

Entertainment: Top 10 Ways to Freak Him Out

Desperation will make him run in the opposite direction That said, there is a big difference between Acting desperately Reacting desperately when your heart is broken We’ve all done crazy things in the name of “love” So before you make any drastic moves the following are real life accounts of behavior that really freaks guys […]

Relationships: 10 Acts of Chivalry Men Should Bring Back

Happy Father’s Day! Dear Dads, You may have made mistakes, you may not have done everything you wished you could for your children, but believe me when I say as long as they can look back to fond memories, wise counsel, and they have sensed your genuine concern for their well being, that alone is worth […]

Anatomy of a Hater: 4 Signs You Are in a Selfish and Toxic Friendship

Get ahead | Succeed | Career | Lov Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me  #ConfessionsOfAFemaleNarcissist What is NPD? Narcissistic Personality Disorder involves arrogant behavior, a lack of empathy for other people and a need for constant admiration in relationships. People with […]

Anatomy of a Hater: 14 Signs You Are In a Selfish and Toxic Relationship

Get ahead | Succeed | Career | Love A narcissist only cares about himself He sees the world as “Me” the great, wonderful, fabulous, amazing, irresistible man.  Against “the world” sub humans, inferior, weak, pathetic creatures. You cannot reason with him How do you reason with someone who twists the facts and has an aversion […]

Anatomy of a Hater: 5 Ways To Identify a Hater

Get ahead | Succeed | Career | Love So you thought BLACKCITYGIRL had come this far without serious haters? Think again Everyone comes up against someone who hates them for no logical reason. These people typically pull strings behind your back to damage your character, or shamelessly undermine your qualities to anyone who will listen, […]

6 Classic Gift Ideas for the Holiday Season

Now we’ve all been there… That moment when you unwrap your present at the speed of lightning…only to find the gift staring back at you, is the last thing you want! What else can you do but smile, through gritted teeth and politely say “Thank you” while hoping against hope, the provider will get the […]

Entertainment: 8 Signs You Are a Basic Chick

If you believe the main definition of basic is ‘An essential, fundamental element or entity.’ Welp! Think again. This 5 letter word has undergone an extreme makeover of late, and is now fashionably thrown around in casual conversations, by women who brand everything they despise as basic (making life so much easier) especially after a few […]

Entertainment: Your 7 Step Guide to a Millionaire

Get ahead | Succeed | Career | Love At BLACKCITYGIRL we applaud every woman brave enough to admit what she wants, plus anyone who has the balls to pursue it. On top of that, we believe that if your ultimate goal is to ensnare a man with money, then for heaven’s sake – do it […]

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