Relationships: 10 Ways To Get Him To Chase You And Fall Hard

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A woman who doesn’t chase, stands out, she is a prize and the right man ends up pursuing her, all the way to the altar

He moves heaven and earth to impress her and uses his resources, his time and effort to meet her needs because to him, she is high value. He surpasses her standards and changes his behavior just to please her.

Look closely at what men do in pursuit of wifey material, they wait for sex, move states, buy gifts she mentions in passing, pay for her child’s tuition, cover her family’s health insurance, help in times of need, keep their word, remain consistent and we’re just getting started.

Like it or not, the chase isn’t just something men enjoy. It’s coded in their DNA, and is fundamental to building and keeping attraction.

Men love the chase

Be honest. You love the chase, too! A man wants to feel like he’s the only guy in the world that could have you. That it was his unique blend of charm and charisma that won you over. 

Vice versa, you want to know he wasn’t just looking for a relationship with any woman, that it was you, and only you, who turned his bachelor ways into a committed partner. 

Men want to work for what they earn 

A mature man doesn’t want something cheap or something he can get for free. There’s no effort involved in getting it.

Men want to feel special. They enjoy the ego boost that comes from fighting and defeating other men for the attention of a beautiful woman, symbolically or literally, they want to win.

When you make it a little hard on him and harder on every other man for that matter, it promotes good competition and inspires the right man to push himself to out man everyone else.

One moment he’s chasing you and the next you’re chasing him

Smh. Nowadays women spend more time reading in between the lines of texts, trying to interpret his intentions. First he said “you belong together” and then he said “y’all should just be friends”. 

It’s ironic that in spite of technology communication has never felt more confusing. No one’s dating anymore, they’re “hanging out.” And in the midst of all this super casual dating, signs and intentions are unclear. Meaning some men sit back and expect women to chase THEM.

So how do you keep his interest in a dating world where men can get sex with ease?

1. Refuse to chase him

Do nothing sis. If you’re serious about getting him to fall hard. Don’t slide in his DMs, or stalk him, or send random texts like “how are you?” don’t add his friends on social media, or call him, without first building up an emotional connection, which takes time.

As tempted as you are


Don’t initiate any form of contact

When you chase him, you take away one of his core needs, pleasing you. In other words you kill his attraction towards you. Start operating in your femininity and receive his effort. Allow him to pay, and open doors for you, and enjoy his compliments and attention.

Don’t believe the hype about giving hints. He doesn’t need your help! Even a shy guy will summon up enough courage to approach a woman he really wants. Pay attention because his chasing skills will one day be his leadership skills.

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2. Men love mystery

When you chase, you’re the one revealing your schedule, your life, your hopes, your dreams, and once he knows every part of you, there’s no incentive to discover more.

The quickest way to bore him to death, is to have you figured out knowing exactly what you think, and predicting what you’re going to say. Men are drawn to what is unfamiliar.

3. Wait for sex

Women with high value have sexual discipline. They can easily get sex, but they realize how common and widespread it is for women to use their sex appeal to “spark male interest”, and how fleeting his sexual interest is. She’s not average!

Waiting for sex wins his respect because he is curious about why she is different. Getting his respect is essential for him to fall hard.

4. Walk in your purpose

Wifey material knows her real attraction isn’t physical. She works on being busy and happy and builds a life she is passionate about, rather than focusing on how she looks or how men perceive her. In doing so, she radiates the confidence of a woman who knows her worth.

If you want to consistently have high quality, Godly, men chasing you, push your comfort zone, confront your fears, and build a high quality life. It’s a rare woman who does that, and men know it.

5. Communicate your needs

Tell him your expectations. Men aren’t mind readers. Be direct. Communicate what you want.

Part of being an empowered woman is knowing your heart, your time, and your company is worth being wooed and pursued.

She has wife written all over her. Some dudes can’t read though


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