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It’s comforting to know that a woman need not look like a supermodel to grab a man’s attention. Contrary to this, when he is searching for commitment a woman’s outer appearance takes a back seat. In that case, what happens when you meet a guy (I’m talking one who ticks ALL of your boxes) and you wish to captivate him?
The only logical solution is to intoxicate him with your charisma. You have to leave him thinking: WOW. Only then will he find it hard to resist you. Otherwise, what is to stop him falling madly in lust with someone else?
From the outset, a man will automatically place a woman he fancies into 1 of 2 categories:
Category 1: The Casual Girl: A woman he uses for sex with no strings. If the situation evolves into a “relationship” he will drop lyrics like “I do take you seriously” and “I do want this to work” when in fact the “relationship” has zero prospects.
Category 2: The Potential Wife: His dream woman. A man will court this woman properly and treat her with the upmost respect as his sole purpose is to marry her. It won’t be long before his actions provide little clues about his intentions.
A great personality keeps a relationship alive
It’s worth mentioning that men are visual creatures (they make it their duty to to ogle) therefore first impressions do count. However, one of the most effective ways to motivate a good man to view you as a potential wife – and future mother of his children – is to cultivate a GREAT personality.
If a man is going to have you around forever he needs to be sure that:
- You share common interests
- He can confide in you
- You can understand him
- You can have meaningful conversations and stimulate his intellect
- You can get on with his buddies
- He can introduce you to his work colleagues and family
Here are 5 guaranteed methods to help you achieve a GREAT personality
1. Discover your passions
Most of us are naturally drawn to certain activities. Whether they are casual hobbies or lifetime pursuits, commit to them. Your newfound passion will add another dimension to your personality anytime you spark up a conversation or need to relate to others.
Travel is an invaluable way to invest in yourself and learn about other cultures. A trip to your neighboring city won’t break the bank but will add a great deal to your life experience. As a matter of course, you will become more open minded and receptive to other races. You will also find that speaking about your travels is a great icebreaker when you meet a potential partner.
3. Come out of your comfort zone
Take a chance – just once – and expose yourself to new pursuits. Watching plays, concerts, attending festivals and taking up a new sport will make you far more lively and interesting to be around.
It is the least costly yet the shortest route to enhance your personality and mental agility. A good book will enrich your life, mind, imagination and language skills forever.
Never underestimate the benefits of building your vocabulary – having a wide vocab will:
- Give you the ability to say precisely what you mean especially in the heat of the moment.
- Allow you to communicate your feelings while helping you pinpoint his.
- Boost your feminine powers of persuasion when you’re anxious to get your own way!
- Help create a good impression on his nearest and dearest.
5. Become approachable
Yes you maybe the hottest chick on the planet but when a man initiates a conversation – it takes guts – so being polite should be second nature (c’mon you know it’s true). The fact he is talking to you is a compliment not a curse.
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