Editor’s Note: Why Did I Start BLACKCITYGIRL?

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For those that are curious

I’m a Black career woman living in the city. I remember the days when wild horses couldn’t drag me from a hot party – yes that’s me in the neon yellow dress! Now, I amuse myself by going to work everyday, coming home exhausted, only to repeat the same cycle the following day. Like most, I earn a salary that I never get time to spend. I’m always “busy” doing something. Sometimes I do nothing at all, but the point is, I’m still “busy” doing nothing. Besides getting my hair done, shopping, going to the gym, gossiping with friends, I spend the rest of my time wishing my workmates would rot in hell. Okay just kidding! But seriously, I sometimes wonder whether there is more to life.

Why did I start BLACKCITYGIRL?

Well, I was tired of answering to other people. You see, I go to work and answer to my boss. I go home and answer to my housemates. I go to my parent’s and answer to my elders, I started a side job (copy-writing for small businesses now I copy-write full time) and answer to different clients, I’m the youngest in my family and I answer to my siblings. So I created this blog as a sanctuary (a place) where I could just be ME. Moreover, this blog is a forum that allows everyone to have a voice – be THEMSELVES and share with people from all walks of life.  As Oprah says:


I was once afraid of people saying, “Who does she think she is?” Now I have the courage to stand and say, “This is who I am.”

I love my girlfriends. I love to talk. I love to listen. And most of all I love being a Black Woman. Did I mention, I’m a little crazy as well:

Expect the unexpectedExpect the unexpected

Brace yourself readers as you’re in for a ride!

Until next time,

God Bless,

Yvonne. x

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  1. You go girl. Being a black women is a pleasure.

  2. Tina Akello Otim says:

    Black,bold and beautiful…let the sky be your limit gal….

  3. Thank you ladies, I’m touched by your compliments! We are all in this journey called ‘life’ together.

  4. Black Girls Rock!! Let us continue to encourage each other on this journey called “life” which can often be plagued with many obstacles. Obstacles which we sometimes overcome with a little help from our friends 🙂 xx

  5. Love the blog. I enjoyed the articles! Keep doing your thing!!

  6. Thank You Raquel! I’m so glad you’re enjoying the articles. I can’t wait to hear more of your comments in the future!

  7. Thanks for sharing yourself with us. It is uplifting to see a Black sister really comfortable in her own skin. In addition, you demonstrate that being pro-Black doesn’t mean you have to be anti-anything. Much peace to you!

  8. Ladies, it is awesome to have you all in this community! Denise I’m really touched by your compliments, thank you! I have to say, it has taken years of self development and encouragement from my family to get where I am today.

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